Group Sex, Swinging and Polyamory

Ready for Love Radio on Fame Radio tackles a trifecta of controversial topics with Cooper Beckett and Wendy Norman as my guests. We discuss Open Marriages, Swinging and Polyamory. We discuss what each means, what they are and are not, how these various relationship and sexual options work and what they actually mean for the people involved in these relationship choices. There are many misconceptions and myths and we will work to dispel many of those in this show.

Airing the first Sunday of the month on Fame Music Radio starting again on February 4, 2018 at 9 am ET – http://www.famemusicradio.com/listen.htm.

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Some things we discuss –

  • For the sake of the discussion – let’s start with the definition of monogamy
  • Terms & Definitions – http://www.readyforloveradio.com/non-monogamous-terms-and-concepts
  • Some potential pitfalls and things to consider before getting into group sex – for established partners and for single individuals
  • How do you negotiate threesomes and foursomes?
  • How does someone who has never done this get introduced into the lifestyle?
  • How does a single person get involved?
  • Does being polyamorous just mean you have a lot of sex?
  • What do you want your polyamorous relationship to look like?
  • What is your motivation for wanting this?
  • Jealousy… how do you deal? “I don’t think I can handle the jealousy…” etc…
  • Do I/you have to meet the other partners.
  • How do I still feel special in a poly relationship?
  • Open vs Closed Swinging
  • Performance anxiety in swinging

 

About Cooper

Cooper S. Beckett is the co-founder and host of Life on the Swingset: The Podcast since 2010, author of swinging & polyamory novels A Life Less Monogamous and Approaching The Swingularity, and memoir My Life on the Swingset: Adventures in Swinging & Polyamory. He teaches and speaks on swinging, polyamory, pegging, play parties, and coloring outside the boundaries of your sexuality. He is a graphic & web designer, photographer, and voice over artist, has been a guest expert on Dan Savage’s Savage Lovecast, & is the announcer of Tristan Taormino’s radio show Sex Out Loud. He is currently working on two instructional non-fiction books, one about beginning non-monogamy, and another about pegging.

Wendy Newman Bio:

Wendy Newman is a media celebrated author. She’s a dating and relationship expert who’s given relationship guidance to over fifty thousand women. She helps them find love, or stay in love, or make repairs in their partnerships and marriages.

Over the past 15 years, she’s interviewed thousands of people about relationships, love, dating, sex, and the opposite sex. She’s conducted polls, had one-on-one discussions, and has witnessed over a hundred panels of men talking on these topics.

Her book, 121 First Dates: got a lot of love from The Wall Street Journal, Washington Post, Glamour, Self, Redbook, Huffington Post, Access Hollywood and more. Her second book, Breaking the Relationship Rules: Your Alternative Guide to a Happy Life is in progress now. 

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