Philippe Lewis

Replay of my interview with Philippe Lewis on January 19th, 2017 – – Attachment Theory

My interview with Philippe Lewis on April 27th, 2017 – – Emotional Intelligence

Who is Philippe Lewis?

Philippe Lewis is a Love Coach, Certified Sexological Bodyworker, Trained Somatica Practitioner, and Epic Event Producer. For the last 18 years, he has been exploring love, relationships, intimacy, sensuality and sexuality with individuals and communities through teaching, writing, coaching and events with the goal of growing men and women into better lovers and better humans. He is a father, a lover, a partner, a husband, a teacher, a producer, a writer, a social artist, a coach, a counselor, and much more. He has a deep appreciation for people and life, and his deepest wish is to leave everyone a little bit better and a little bit more delighted wherever he goes <3

What/Who is Exquisite Love Coaching?

Exquisite Love Coaching is yours truly (Philippe Lewis) open sourcing his bits of clarity and wisdom with the whole wide world. My purpose is to support YOU and your COMMUNITY on the path of exploration of love, intimacy, relationships, sensuality, and sexuality. My deepest wish is that while on that path, you will meet others like you, love them and support them deeply, and create community with them so that everyone is included and no one is left behind.

When we come together, wisdom and support naturally arise, and this is how SHIFT and GROWTH happens! Welcome to the new paradigm of living and relating. Welcome to the path of Exquisite Love.

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The Seven Intelligences
– Intellectual intelligence (our relationship to patterns, ideas, concepts)
Emotional intelligence (such as empathy, our relationship to emotions/feelings)
– Social intelligence (a deep grasp of the relationships between human beings)
– Primal/Erotic intelligence (via our inner erotic animal, our relationship to nature)
– Physical intelligence (our relationship to the inner aspects of the body, sleeping/eating/breathing/drinking/exercising/etc)
– Somatic intelligence (our relationship the world via our senses/sensations, movement, body, embodiment, etc)
– Spiritual intelligence (our relationship to god/spirit/energy/etc)

Amazing article on Sex, Love and Attachment by Sue Johnson. Wow. (Note from Nikki – Totally agree about this article. Great insights 🙂
“A secure couple can have all three kinds of sex, Synchrony Sex, Solace Sex which is focused on reassurance, and Sealed off Sex focused on sensation only, at different times, but it seems that the ability to have Synchrony sex – at least some of the time – to integrate sexuality and bonding makes a huge difference in a couple relationship.
Sex is a dance – anxious and avoidant music limits the dance – Insecure attachment constrains sexuality.”
So much YES.

If People Had Honest First Date Conversations (or an anxious woman meets an avoidant man)

Some of the best article I’ve ever read on men, attachment theory, and rape culture:
The Opposite of Rape Culture is Nurturance Culture
For Men Who Desperately Need Autonomy

Attached (a good introduction about attachment theory):

Hold Me Tight by Sue Johnson

The Masks We Live In (follows boys and young men as they struggle to stay true to themselves while negotiating America’s narrow definition of masculinity)